Ross Rosenberg’s important work, The Human Magnet Syndrome: Why We Love People Who Hurt Us, challenges us to continue looking at relationship dynamics to see how our experiences affected us and will continue to affect others. Join this forward-looking movement by reading a book that draws on the discoveries of the past, but adds more wisdom combined with effective answers. Its both the next step in evolution and a revelation.

I recommend The Human Magnet Syndrome to those who work in social services, education, chemical dependency or the counseling fields and to the people they touch. Its time to wake up and this brilliant book sounds the alarm we need.
—Melody Beattie, author of 18 books, including best-selling Codependent No More and Language of Letting Go

Many couples have a give and take relationship. The takers will not read this book. The givers need to. For those who give too much, there is freedom in these pages. Clarity begins here. Learn why you are constantly frustrated no matter how much you give to your partner. Get this book and give yourself a gift.
—Peter Pearson, Ph.D., co-founder of The Couples Institute

Born in the cauldron of personal experience of suffering and healing and honed through years of professional experience, this book will help anyone understand the attractors of love and consequent suffering. I recommend it to couples who are mystified by the depth and repetition of their pain and joy and to therapists whose destiny is to help them.
–Harville Hendrix, Ph.D., co-author with Helen LaKelly Hunt of Making Marriage Simple: Transform the Relationship you Have Into the Relationship you Want

Rosenberg offers a much needed, accessible explanation about how love, sex and relationships can go awry – and what each of us can do to become more empowered and engaged in our lifelong process of building community and family.
–Robert Weiss, LCSW, CSAT-S, author, psychotherapist, educator, sex and relationship disorders expert

Refreshingly intuitive and innovative, Rosenberg unravels the mystery of self-sabotaging relationship patterns. A must read.
—Randi Kreger, co-author of the best-selling Stop Walking on Eggshells and Psychology Today blogger

Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, CSAT is a psychotherapist,international speaker, author, professional trainer and expert witness. He is considered a global expert in the fields of codependency,narcissism, gaslighting, trauma treatment, gaslighting and narcissisticabuse.

Ross’s Human Magnet Syndrome books (2013 and 2018) soldover 90,000 copies and have been translated into Spanish, French, Czech, and soon in Chinese and Russian. His latest book, “The Human MagnetSyndrome: The Codependent Narcissist Trap,” a complete re-write of hisfirst HMS work. Both are considered groundbreaking books oncodependency, narcissism and the treatment for narcissistic abuse.

Ross is a YouTube celebrity with over 14 million video views and 150,000subscribers. His videos inform and inspire a global audience interested in codependency recovery, narcissism, trauma recovery and narcissisticabuse.

His work on codependency, narcissism, trauma, Self-LoveRecovery, and his “Codependency Cure” has earned him internationalrecognition. The Codependency Cure reformulates, redefines, andultimately renames “codependency” to “Self-Love Deficit Disorder.”

His latest “Codependency Cure” work, like The Human Magnet Syndrome,breaks new ground in the mental health fields. It reformulates,redefines, and ultimately renames “codependency” to “Self-Love DeficitDisorder,” a trauma disorder, shame and pathological loneliness problem and an impossible to quit addiction.

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